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April 23, 2012

Letter: Giving sexist remarks a pass doesn't help

To the editor:

I am writing in response to Mr. Diamond's letter (the Times, Saturday, April 21, "Jacques' remarks and the 'thought police'").

While I certainly do not know the whole context or facts surrounding the issue between Selectman Sandy Jacques and Selectwoman Sarah Wilkinson, the alleged use of sexist language, especially by a public official, does concern me.

But what concerns me even more was the implication of Mr. Diamond's letter.

In commenting on his own history of being subjected to anti-Semitic jokes, he states, "In over 50 years of this ridicule, I've never taken anyone to task over the matter."

The implication, if I am reading him correctly, is that — since Mr. Diamond has endured anti-Semitic comments — that others should tolerate insults, in this case, sexist ones, as well.

This logic baffles me. Both are inexcusable, and as an individual, I choose to not let either pass without comment. Just because someone does not speak out about an affront to dignity, that doesn't make it less of one.

To Mr. Diamond, I would like to offer my services to stand with him to challenge any insult to his faith tradition.

And I am sure I can wrangle up some my "militant feminists" friends who might rise to the occasion, too.

MARK ATKINSON

San Jose, Calif.

(Former Rockport resident, and current visitor)

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